I'm me, who is the proud mommy of baby buffy (aka can-can, buffpuff, and queen elizabuff), my almost 2 year old cat, and xander, a fourteen month old kitten who is a total mama's boy. I'm in grad school for social work at VCU in good old Richmond, Virginia. I have brown hair and love the beach and bartending. I used to have cancer and don't anymore, and I'm really into activism! I have a great boyfriend currently deployed with in the army who I miss very much and anxiously await his return...but in the mean time i do love to have fun with my sixteen million gay boyfriends!